beware of vexation
The hurricane is beating us to a pulp. Already two leaks in our roof. Insurance won’t cover it, of course - if we even try to make a claim, they’ll just stop supporting us completely. When I am an adult, I’m not going to let the government regulate my life. Two reasons on how I know this: 1.) As proud as I am to be an American, I’ll be moving - hopefully to Scotland or maybe Italy, and 2.) I’m going to stay healthy and financially secure. I’ve always been great with money, just like my dad. I only spend it on what I really need; none of this OMG PURSES SHOES SUNGLASSES HAIR DYE MANICURE FACE CREAMS. I like capitalism, but the spending? Meh, not so much…
I’m going to be an incredible wife, aren’t I? I hope whoever I end up with will be grateful for my practicality and sensibility.Now, on to the heavy stuff.
I really don’t know if I’m going to find a person who is willing to change his life for me, simply because some of what I want is complete bull to most. Here are the things I look for in a significant other:
- respectable
- loyal (ie honesty and genuineness)
- noble
- gentle
- challenging
- a bit of brute
- a bit of a prince
- a bit of a puppy
- a bit of a sage
- humility
- pride
- personable
- warmth
- cultured
- relaxed
- sweet family, one that likes me
- has a stable cash flow
- doesn’t have any female friends *red flag, amirite?*
- Conservative (not a Republican - just a person who believes in smaller goverment and can recognize left-wing nonsensicality a mile away; and no, they don’t have to hate gay people - if you think that’s what I want or what I stand for, you’re off base.)
- adores my family almost as much as I do
- is not an Atheist and will also honor my Catholicity
- a bit of a spontaneous romantic
- thinks I am elegant and charming both personality wise and physically
- likes my singing
- doesn’t notice my flaws
- sees only me
But what kind of person would I be if I asked a young man to be / do all of this just for me? A fool. However, I will not hesitate to become a solitary fool if my desires aren’t fulfilled.
I could even pull that off, you know.
( Listening to Mo Ve’la Bella Mia Da La Muntagna by Matteo Salvatore )